You're not disorganized... you just have too much stuff.

Before you rush out to buy color-coded bins to organize your stuff and attack your New Year's Resolutions, first try this:

Place a cereal bowl on the counter.  Now pour a gallon of milk into the bowl.  What do you get?  A big mess!  Does that make you a messy person?  No.  You just tried to pour too much milk into too small a bowl.

Now look at your home.  Is the garage overflowing?  Your office creeping into the dining room?  Your kids' toys everywhere?  Your problem may not be a lack of organization, but rather a problem of too much stuff. 


You could move to a bigger house, but I suggest the cheaper, easier, and more ecological idea of getting rid of some of that stuff.  Here's how:

1. Make time.  Set a timer for two to four hours.  Turn off the phone and tv, turn on some great music.  Limit distraction so you get more done.
2. Define the goal.  Keep focussed: choose one closet, one room, one bookshelf at a time.  Otherwise you just end up with a bigger mess.  Make a pile for things to keep, things to toss, and things that need a little more thought (maybe you have to ask another family member about it).
3. Question everything.  As you pick up each item ask:
1. Have we used this in the last 3 months (or, if seasonal, in the last 2 years)?
2. Could someone else use this better or enjoy this more than I am?
3. Does owning this make my happy, or do I not really care about having it?  Or worse, am I only keeping it out of guilt?
4. Does this fit?  (This might be a dress size, or it might be a question of age-appropriateness).
4. Reconsider.  Go back to the "keep" pile and take out at least three more things to give away.
5. Take action.
1. Put the "to think about" pile in a box and seal it up.  Mark a date on the calendar 1-2 months away.  If you haven't needed anything from the box, take it to Goodwill on that date without opening it up!
2. Take the "get rid of" pile to Goodwill immediately.  If you could immediately shed 10 lbs the moment you decided to go on a diet, wouldn't you do so?  With your house, you can, so take that extra weight and get rid of it!!

Once you get rid of all the stuff you are not using you'll be amazed at how much room you have and how everything can find a home so easily.  Good luck, and happy organizing!